You Want to Share Your Wife… But Don’t Know How to Say It? This Is Where It Starts.
You’re turned on by the idea. Imagining your wife with another man. Watching her enjoy herself with no limits. On top of him. Breathless, moaning. You’re present, aroused, witnessing… maybe even humiliated or dominated.
But you don’t know where to start.
- How do you say it without breaking trust?
- How do you introduce such a strong desire without sounding weird or perverted?
Relax. You’re not alone. And there are ways to do it.
1. Before talking, create tension. Play with the senses.
Going straight to the point can be brutal.
What feels natural to you after years of fantasizing… might be unexpected or even uncomfortable for her.
The key is to suggest, not impose.
To arouse, not pressure.
Start with the physical.
Suggest using a toy. A dildo bigger than yours. Don’t say a word. Let her feel in control.
Watch her while she plays. Or help her slowly, sensually, without speaking. Let her imagine. Tell her you enjoy seeing her more than joining in.
A subtle example?
When you’re out together, whisper:
“Have you noticed how men look at you?
I love it. It turns me on knowing they want you.”
You didn’t say “I want to see you with another man.”
But you’ve opened that mental door… without her even noticing.
2. Shift the focus: it’s not about another man, it’s about her.
When you imagine a hotwife scene, what do you focus on?
Many guys get obsessed with the “bull”, with size, with rough sex.
But that’s a mistake. Because the desire to share starts with her.
Your fantasy isn’t about him. Focus on her. On what she feels. On how you watch her while it’s happening.
“Your pleasure turns me on more than mine.”
“You’re too much for just one man.”
“It drives me crazy to think I can’t give you everything you need…”
You don’t need to say “I want you with another man.”
You just need to let her know you have a fantasy where she’s the star… and you desire her more than ever in that fantasy.
3. Introduce desire, not the conversation.
This kink isn’t born in words. It’s born in skin, in fantasy, in intimacy.
Talking about it rationally can sometimes kill the spark.
Better to plant fantasies with no pressure. Here are real ideas:
- Tell her about a fake (or real) dream:
“Last night I dreamed you were with another man… and I was just watching. I woke up rock hard.” - Put on a hotwife or cuckold video “by accident” and watch her reaction.
- Write her a fantasy from an anonymous profile and send it as if you found it online:
“I read this and thought of you. Would something like this turn you on?” - Send her an article that talks about cuckolding as a growing, popular fantasy.
You’re not asking. You’re letting her imagine it.
4. What if she says yes (or shows interest)?
This is where many freeze.
What if she says: “Would it really turn you on to see me with another guy?”
Or even: “I’ve actually thought about that too…”
Stay calm. Breathe. Don’t start making plans.
This kink isn’t about rushing to the end, it’s about building tension, desire, connection.
Tips if she shows interest:
- Don’t push her. Let her take the next step.
- Send her stories, videos, gifs that reflect your feelings.
- Make her feel safe, loved, and deeply desired the whole time.
- Talk way more about her pleasure than about the other guy.
5. What if she says no?
Not all women are ready.
Some need time. Others just need to feel they have permission.
If she says no, don’t treat it as a wall.
Respect it… but keep building an atmosphere of freedom, desire, openness.
Because if this desire lives inside you… it’s not going anywhere.
Why does this kink turn us on so much?
Cuckolding and hotwifing aren’t just a modern trend.
This kink has existed for centuries — in history, in art, in psychology.
Why?
Because it mixes desire, power, surrender, taboo…
and a primal emotion: watching others crave your partner right in front of you.
Studies say 58% of men have fantasized about seeing their wife with another man.
And on platforms like Pornhub, “cuckold” and “hotwife” are among the top 20 most searched terms in the world.
You’re not weird. You’re not alone.
You’re connected to an ancient, powerful fantasy.
Conclusion
If you’ve made it this far, it means this fantasy isn’t just about sex. It’s a part of you that wants out.
And even if you try to bury it… it’ll come back. It’s not dirty. It’s real.
And let me tell you something: There’s nothing more thrilling than living your fantasies with the one you love.
Maybe it scares you.
But if she feels it with you, if you give her the space… it might become the best thing that’s ever happened to you both.
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Uffff, my deepest fantasy! Have to tell my wife about it…